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Un/Healthy Relationships

Have you ever heard the saying, “ Tell the truth and shame the devil ”! LOL! Well, here’s one of my truths:  I’ve struggled with being in a negative relationship for years . It’s true! What’s comforting for me though, is knowing that I’m not the only person who’s experienced this before. I truly understand the struggle of trying to break away from something that’s so familiar, yet, also not good for me at the same time. I would tell myself a thousand times over that  I’m going to do this …  I’m going to break away and make this happen .    I would then find myself falling right back into the hands of  complacency . Why was I doing that? Why did it seem so hard? I believe it’s because deep down I knew the first thing I really needed to work on to move past this situation, was the way that I thought about it. I had to ask myself a few questions like:  Do I really want to experience being in a healthy relationship…   What would that even feel like …....